When the ruler of the fourth house is in the seventh house, this means that your parents may be your best friends or worst enemies – it all depends on the condition of the mentioned astrological combination.
If this placement is unafflicted, your parents (or one of them, likely to be a mother) will always be close to you, advising, supporting and aiding you throughout your life.
Your old age may be spent with your loved one, and partnerships can strongly feature in your life especially towards its end. Though from the earliest age you are likely to be a friendly person who will have people close to you, as friends, business or intimate partners.
The danger of this placement is that you can become very dependent on others, especially those close to you, thus making your decisions once others give their feedback.
Avoid such dependency by learning to make choices without asking anyone for advice. Yes, you will make mistakes, but you will learn from them, and your judgment will become more and more sound.
This placement shows that you may choose to leave your inheritance (such as your property, land, or money) to either your loved one, business partner, or your close friend.
If this combination is afflicted, after your death, your immovable property or money can get into the hands of those who were opposing you and wished you ill.
You will treat your close friends like your family members, and you may even live with them at some point in your life. And when you date someone, they are likely to want to move in with you.
You can see the situation from the perspective of other people. Being able to put yourself into the shoes of others gives you a much more wholesome view of any situation which helps you to make the right choices.
You can adjust to the character and peculiarities of other people, therefore you should do well in negotiations. You will do well in work that involves much communication, especially on a one-to-one basis.
Your parents (or one of them) may also have had careers which were to do with much communication, partnerships, or negotiation.
Yet another danger of the fourth house ruler being in the seventh house is your susceptibility to influence and persuasion. Because you are an agreeable person, some people may use this against you, asserting their willpower over you, so that you end up taking actions which you later regret.
Of course, this will not happen if you have strong opposing astrological factors. But if there isn’t such an opposite force, you may be easily hypnotised, influenced, and persuaded.
This placement also means that you may marry someone (or be with a long-term partner) who is well-established in life, and lives on their own land or owns their property.
